paths of creation

remember what is possible

5 steps to change that lasts

Paths of Creation is a transformative approach designed to nurture creativity, foster personal growth, and support spiritual awakening. It invites you to tap into the limitless potential that already exists within you, guiding you toward deeper self-awareness and purposeful action.

Outline​
1 | The Foundation
2 | The Dream
3 | The Map
4 | The Pivot
5 | The Summit

1 | The Foundation

Understanding who you are and what you want is essential for knowing where you’re headed.

Too often we are influenced by the perceptions of what we think we want or who we are from a lens outside of ourselves. In reality, the creative journey comes from within and is different for each person.

If you’ve struggled with actualizing your vision, it would be crucial to consider if the vision you are working towards is your own.

In circumstances where we will ourselves forward on a path we don’t actually want to be on, we find a superficial drive in motivation and discipline. Only to come to the end of the path exhausted and depleted.

Self-determination theory tells us that we suffer when motivated by others and external rewards. We can’t avoid feelings of anxiety, shame or guilt by doing what we think we should be doing.

There has to be an intrinsic or internal source of willingness to pursue an end in order to release suffering and wholly enjoy what we are working towards.

Simply, if you’re looking for discipline to drive you forward, you’re seeing only the near future.

Discipline is likened to removing a tree from your path. You can hack at the limbs of behavior and make it through this season, or you can get to work on the root and create a personal, principle-centered approach that will carry you through years.

Our principles serve as a grounded source of discipline.

Let’s identify the principles that ensure your endeavors are grounded, paving the way for authentic growth and innovation.

Start by asking… What do you believe to be true about yourself?

Building principle-centered groundwork is the culmination of various parts. Draw from any source that provides perspectives that align with your beliefs.

By writing a personal mission statement or creed, you define your guiding values and intentions.

This process involves contemplation, reflecting on existence, purpose, and meaning.

Once you establish your principles, you’ll find it easier and more desirable to change because there is something, some core deep within, that is essentially changeless.

When you encounter obstacles and challenges on the path, you refer to your principles to provide reassurance of what you value, and what you are working towards.

Creating a personal mission statement or creed can take more than a day, depending on how much debris you need to excavate to find the root of who you are.

To support the process I created a Personal Mission Statement Worksheet that outlines the steps.

In the coming days and weeks, reference your principles and personal mission statement to reaffirm your core beliefs on what drives you forward, and build upon them as you evolve on the path.

2 | The Dream

Now that you know what principles you stand grounded in, it’s time to unlock your potential and cultivate a vision of what you want to accomplish.

Ideation and visualization are key steps in the creative process, enabling your dreams to take form and become tangible.

The vision serves as your compass, directing your efforts and decisions, ensuring that your actions align with your core values and aspirations.

Begin with identifying what you want to achieve in various areas of your life, whether in your career, health, relationships, or spiritual and philosophical growth.

Maybe you see this list and think, yes, I want all of that. Amazing!! You can use these same steps to actualize everything you want.

Let your creativity flourish as you explore new ideas and possibilities. This is where your potential starts to take shape.

While some may find this step the easiest, hello fellow space cadets, others can find it hard to conceive of something that has never been.

Visualization is an artistic endeavor, therefore I love to begin by creating a mood board. A mood board serves as an emotional connection to the vision, which is where it starts in you, as a feeling, a deep knowing of what’s possible.

There are so, so many amazing tools to capture inspiration and references for your mood board. Here’s a short list of some of my favorites. No affiliation or commission on these, I just genuinely love what they offer!

  • mymind – offers a browser plug-in to save Google searches, quotes, images, pages, etc. Great for writing and creating spaces that sum up ideas.
  • moodboardai – all the visuals you could dream up, with help from ai, for physical spaces, photography, and events.
  • moood – great for those that have an array of visuals and ideas already saved, this system works like a blank canvas that offers a space to find order in the chaos.
  • milanote – the middle ground between a blank canvas and generative ai, milanote gives you additional tools to curate your board, while giving you that canvas to conceptualize.

When you have an idea that sits in your soul, and you see an image, words, or activities that resonate with you, it’s your deep knowing that is offering you a glimpse of the big picture.

But, how do you know?

You know when something resonates with you because it evokes an emotional response in you.

Albeit, it’s not always going to be a positive one.

Reflections of what we value and desire for ourselves can be found through projection. Which requires you to be mindful of your judgements and discern what your subconscious is trying to tell you.

Projection and judgment could mean that something is for you, or it’s not for you, based on your values.

Those are the questions you need to answer for yourself. What is this really trying to tell me?

Don’t hesitate to challenge thoughts and notice where they originate. Similarly to our paradigm shift of yesterday, this vision can be wholly yours. You don’t need to do what anyone else is doing. Part of creation is the ability to reimagine reality and reframe old narratives.

This isn’t going to all come together today. Be patient but persistent with yourself. The slow unfolding offers its own sweetness.

While your visions begin to take form, see if you can be specific and clearly define what it is that you want and of equal importance, why. Dive in.

Next we’ll take your vision and break it down into smaller, manageable steps.

Think of these steps as trail markers guiding you along the path. Just like trail markers signal the start, end, and changing conditions of a trail, these steps will help you stay the course.

And in order to take these steps to actualize your vision, you’ll develop realistic timelines too.

This is where the magic happens!

3 | The Map

You’ve created the vision. Now to identify the milestones, the map, that will get you there.

This is how we make our vision actionable and attainable.

As with your vision, you’ll start big, set aside an hour for long-term goal setting. These will be the bookends you can work back from. This could be by year, quarter, and then month.

This will set you up to break down short-term and daily goals once you have the big picture in view.

Next, find one hour, usually less per week where you can pre-plan and allocate specific time slots for different tasks and activities. This is best done over the weekend or Monday morning to ensure you have identified all of your priorities.

The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.

Don’t have a calendar where you write down your appointments and schedule? Get one. A simple iCal, Outlook, or my favorite Google Calendar, synced up to your smartphone are best.

If you’re like me, you’re probably thinking, I don’t want my whole life laid out for me. Where is the time for spontaneity and novelty? Rest assured it’s an iterative process, so don’t expect it to ever be complete or set in stone.

It should be fluid and malleable, just like you. More on that soon.

First things first, schedule in your allotted breaks prior to scheduling in your work.

If you don’t slow down, you’ll miss those moments of ease that can make the process smoother. Time and space for non-doing, for being still, in silence. It may sound counterintuitive, but prioritizing rest provides you with the momentum to keep going.

Then, identify your roles and obligations as an individual, as a parent, spouse, other significant relationships, and your career.

If this feels overwhelming you may be thinking with the outcome in mind.

To keep it manageable, consider one or two results you want to accomplish in the next 7 days.

You may find it helpful to color code your blocks of time based on where you are spending it. Then you can visually see where your time is going. Below is a guide to get you started.

  • Purple – Individual goals, personal tasks, and breaks
  • Red – Administrative tasks such as your weekly scheduling
  • Green – Project blocks that move you closer to your goals
  • Yellow – Meetings

By blocking your time, you’ll prevent tasks from taking longer than necessary, and help improve focus.

Group similar tasks together to improve efficiency.

For example, if you have to take a few meetings, put them back to back, so that you can block a larger period of time for projects without intermediate distractions.

Next, find some wiggle room for overflow to avoid burnout or anxiety over getting activities done in a specific amount of time. Consider these blocks your flex time.

Lastly, spend a few minutes each evening reviewing the day and revising where you spent your time so you can track it over time and see where the day went off the rails, as well as time for reviewing and planning the next day’s tasks and priorities. This shouldn’t take more than ten minutes.

As you move through this process of action you may notice that you are more productive in certain areas at different parts of the day. As with me, I tend to be more creative and inspired in the morning. Towards the afternoon is where I take meetings and review emails as they require less mental capacity and my cognitive load has been drained from all the doing.

From here, it’s up to you.

Actually taking action and implementing these techniques is based on your personal agency.

Go back to your principles and remind yourself of who you are and why you’re here. Continue to do that during moments when you can’t ‘will’ yourself forward.

Remember, your vision is timeless and there is no urgency to creation. You’ll get there with consistent steps in the direction you want to go.

4 | The Pivot

As you progress on the path of creation, you start to see the manifestation of your efforts.

Your vision and principles materialize in the real world, reflecting the strength and clarity of your foundation.

Be flexible and ready to adjust your plan if you encounter obstacles or if your goals evolve.

No path is a linear line, sometimes you need to change the approach, but keep the summit, where you want to be, in sight.

That’s why maps are important, they can identify the different routes to get you to the same destination.

Today’s approach ensures that you are consistently refining your methods and enhancing your outcomes.

This journey is a testament to the power of continuous improvement. Through constant iteration and dedicated effort, you turn abstract concepts into concrete outcomes.

When you adopt a philosophy of continuous improvement you become limitless. Gradually learning and improving from experience leads to significant, positive change.

That said, you only want to take the effort to change your approach if you identify a problem in the current process. Change for the sake of change can be a waste of time and a subconscious distraction from your goals.

That said, the first step is to identify the problem.

Just stating the problem doesn’t get you very far. You will need to understand how it came to be.

The second part is to analyze your current process and the steps that could have led to where you currently are, in need of a pivot.

Begin by objectifying the problem or circumstance by placing it outside of yourself. This helps remove the emotional attachment to where things are. It can be difficult to analyze a problem when it is veiled with guilt or shame.

As you analyze the situation, circumnavigate by viewing it from all angles. Really get curious as to each of the small steps that led to the current outcome AND what could be different if those choices had been different.

It can be the small changes that lead to different outcomes.

At this point you may need to go back to ideation.

How can you reimagine and reframe the current process?

Then put the solution into practice and see if it works. Analyze if the problem has been resolved or if you need a different approach.

Once you know that the new solution works then make it the standard.

You could have guessed, but as you move forward with the new approach, you may encounter a new problem. Perhaps the ethos of continuous improvement is that there will never be a point in which you don’t encounter a roadblock. Find the detour and go around it.

The truth is you don’t want the approach to always be the same. That’s when you stop learning. Anything that isn’t changing is stagnating.

Clarissa Pinkola Estes reinforces this sentiment when she wrote, “It is not the failure that holds us back but the reluctance to begin over again that causes us to stagnate.”

Embrace the bumps with abandon and say thank you for the opportunity to practice, thank you for this next level of evolution.

5 | The Summit

Growth is a journey of continuous evolution and refinement of your beliefs and practices.

Celebrate your milestones and achievements along the way. Reflect on how far you’ve come. It will keep driving you forward as you continue to actualize what is possible for your life.

Ultimately, growth is when you discover that it’s not about the outcome, that the purpose is in the process of being.

The path is less about creating and more about awakening all the latent desires to live a fully integrated life.

A life that captivates your attention.

When you seek within you are never without.

From the summit, you gain a perspective that reveals the need for a purpose beyond your goals; as you’ll realize there are many more mountains to climb.

You’ll see your purpose is about something deeper… timeless… limitless.

The purpose is you.

There is a popular saying in Zen Buddhism:

“Before one studies Zen, mountains are mountains and waters are waters; after a first glimpse into the truth of Zen, mountains are no longer mountains and waters are no longer waters; after enlightenment, mountains are once again mountains and waters once again waters.” ― Dōgen

Before embarking on The Paths of Creation, you perceive everything as it is and as you’ve been conditioned to see the world.

However, once you begin this journey, you start to understand that things aren’t always as they appear. You discover there are endless ways to see the world.

How we perceive completely depends on who we are. It depends on the time and place in which we find ourselves.

Upon reaching the summit, you can appreciate things for their true essence, recognizing that life is both impermanent and eternal.

There is no fixed way. 

The only limits that exist are the ones we have set for ourselves.

The abilities you now possess are only shadows of your real strength.

Thanks for being here. And thanks for being you. 

xx,

stay connected to calm

A sacred pause in your inbox—whispers of wisdom, unseen teachings, and guided practices to bring you home to yourself. Sign up to receive insights and event invites shared only with this circle.